Finding good information on the internet is difficult, and it has to do with Google rankings.

By now, we’ve all heard that without good sexual education, people learn how to have sex through porn, and that’s problematic. You know what else is problematic? Learning about sex through articles whose explicit purpose is to sell you a product or rank better on google.

Friends, I have news. I am leaving my position as Event Coordinator and Engagement Liaison at Oasis Aqualounge. For me, this is a Big Fucking Deal, and was an incredibly difficult decision for me to make.

Setting clear expectations for behaviour is a skill I had to learn so I could be a better care provider, but it has made me better at communicating my needs in a sexual setting.

The place where I finally learned the nuances of consent and how to navigate it in my personal relationships wasn’t from sexual health education, it was from a sex club. I am of course speaking, again, about Oasis Aqualounge.

It’s that time of the year again – the time where brands explain how to get beach-ready for the summer, with the obligatory sponsored content to support your transformation. In just 21 days, you too can be ripped for the beach, but only if you buy our products!

Hey is the most vague and useless opener. If this is all you’re sending, I’ll have to assume that you’re a very boring person. What am I supposed to do with this? Say hey back? What do you want from me? How much emotional labour am I going to have to spend on you if I respond? Do you lack basic conversational skills? If you’re asking a question, just ask it so I know if I want to respond or not. I may not want to respond. You’re going to have to deal with it.