Book a Custom Workshop

I pride myself on workshops that are engaging and highly informative, and I can create a sex education workshop to target your group’s specific needs. We can work together to determine if the workshop is virtual or in-person, and the duration of time spent on the workshop. Choose from my existing workshop topics (below) or work with us to build something new just for you and your group. Click here to book your workshop.

Sexuality & Intimacy Workshops for Adults

Workshops are developed to be inclusive, informative, and fun. Each workshop is carefully designed to include elements that will engage and teach participants about intimacy, sex positivity, consent, and healthy decision making practices. Topics include but are not limited to pleasure, consent, sexual health, non-monogamy, birth control, LGBTQ+, parenting with sex positivity, and beginners kink.  Virtual seminars and workshops are run monthly, whereas in person workshops and seminars are run at the discretion of Rae & Marisa, individually and together. Custom workshops are available for order for unique audience, topic, and date specifications. 

Down the Rabbit Hole: A pleasure and empowerment workshop for adults

Pleasure is the leading reason for sex, so why doesn’t everyone know more about it? Why are we not deep diving into understanding where we source our pleasure? Is it in our lifestyle, your fantasies, your partner, touch, taste, or sight? All pleasure activates the same area of the brain and we’re excited to talk through how you can switch up your routine to experience more of it. In this workshop we’ll dive into pleasure systems, nature vs. nurture, lifestyles, fantasies, and how to activate your arousal systems to get the most pleasure out of your sexual practice. We’ll navigate different ways to experience pleasure and push the boundaries of your comfort zones. With a focus on consent, understanding, and excitement we’ll give you the tools you need to explore different pleasure centers safely and excitedly. 

Not Your First Rodeo: A consent workshop for adults

Consent is a hot topic issue - and it should be. But if you were raised in a time where consent was not highlighted, how do you begin to shift your thoughts on consent from harmful to hopeful? This isn’t your first rodeo, but there is always space to learn because we know you’re trying, and we’re here to guide you. In this 3 hour consent training workshop, I focus on going beyond what you learned in school because most of the time it’s unrelatable or realistic. We’ll talk nuances, sexual assault, and different consent models. We’ll also talk about how to make consent sexy and not robotic or awkward. You’ll learn about sexual assaults, legalities of consent scenarios, and common misconceptions, dive into the differences between verbal and nonverbal consent, how you’ve been influenced through media, and how to include consent as a fun and desirable way to communicate. 

Kink 101: Kink for absolute beginners

Are you interested in expanding or exploring your kinky side? Want to know more about fetishes, power dynamics, and different ways to play? Many people assume kink is all about pain and humiliation, and while that’s true for some, there’s so much more to kink and BDSM. If you’re interested in getting kinky, this one hour workshop explores kink, BDSM, and everything in between. We’ll be talking about the different types of kinks - not just the kind that include a whip. Get ready to explore the limit of your comfort zones, dive into what you might be missing, and leave wanting more.

Healing Trauma Through Kink

Not all kinksters have trauma, and not all people with trauma enjoy kink. What happens when people explore their trauma in a kink space? This workshop talks about the science of trauma, how kink affects the brain, and under what parameters you can use kink to heal your trauma. This workshop is helpful to to all who are interested in exploring their own trauma through kink, service providers who work with individuals experiencing trauma, and individuals who provide services in the kink realm.

Sharing is Caring: Open Relationships for beginners

Open relationships are increasingly being portrayed in the media, but no one ever explains the terminology or how to bring it up in your relationship. If you're curious about ethical non monogamy, polyamory, swinging, and everything in between, we're here to show you how sharing is caring. This workshop is a crash course into relationship models that are the alternative of monogamy. We’ll talk about the differences between romantic and sexual relationships, communication styles, and how to bring up non monogamy in your relationships.

Anal 101

Everything you need to know to have a fun, pleasurable, and safe experience exploring this sensual orifice. 

Latex Crafting 101

Rae has been designing latex through her brand, Raezor Latex, since 2014. As a designer, she creates custom pieces to promote body positivity in the fetish community. In this course, you will learn how to make latex clothing, all from the comfort of your own home. This course will teach you what materials you need, how to cut latex, how to glue different seams, finishing methods, and how to get creative with your own style. This workshop is available for in person bookings, or do it from home on your own schedule with virtual videos and step by step guides. Click here for the virtual Latex Crafting 101 at home course.

General Sex Education Workshops

We teach sex education workshops to youths and adults alike. Safe sex education is important at any age. Despite good intentions, we know that schools are not doing their part to ensure that you or your child are getting the information you need in a shame-free environment. Our sex ed workshops go beyond medical information. Each workshop actively de-stigmatizes healthy sexuality while giving you the knowledge you need to make safer sex choices. While virtual workshops are targeted to teach sex education to adults, any of the topics can be adapted to become sex education workshops for youths. The workshops listed below are existing workshops that you can take online during our monthly virtual workshops, or you can bring one of our workshops to your group or school.

Sharing STIs: STI transmission, protection, and stigma

This safe sex educational workshop is a comprehensive overview of Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs), and specifically, how they are transmitted, how you can protect yourself against them, and to work to end the stigma around STIs to allow better access to care. We dive into STIs to help you understand personal health management. The information is presented in a sex-positive way, and deconstructions internalised stigma and unconscious bias surrounding the risk, transmission, and lifestyle of those affected.

Dirty Laundry: Contraception information & stigma

Designed to educate people with uteruses on birth control types, Dirty Laundry: The Contraception Webinar expanded to include the long history of birth control, the practices that beliefs that have shaped the way people use and view contraception, and the current oppressive political systems that foster fear, misogyny, and the prevention of bodily autonomy.

Everyone Gets a Flag: The LGBTQ Webinar

Everybody Gets a Flag beings with a crash course in LGBTQ+ language, and highlights the history of the LGBTQ+ community, the movement, and the misconceptions relating to gender, sexuality, and equality. This workshop is for anyone looking to expand their understanding of trans rights, non-binary gender systems, sexual preferences, and ways to continuously support the LGBTQ+ community.

Master Date: Success and Safety in Online Dating

A condensed, hands on, interactive 2 hour workshop for university students that covers how to be successful when online dating, and includes safety topics like bots, catfishing, and sending nudes.

Sex Positivity & Parenting Workshops

Parent/Child Consent and Self Defense

Originally a custom workshop, this is now a recurring in-person workshop that takes place yearly at Freestyle Dojo in Toronto.. This workshop is targeted to kids aged 10-13 and their parents to start the discussion on consent and boundaries, and teach practical tools for getting out of unsafe situations. Contact Rae for more information or to book this workshop at a preferred time and date for your small group.

Parenting & Sexual Health and Wellness

You want to raise your child with healthy self esteem, and have healthy relationships. This workshop dives into talking about sexual health as caregivers from infancy to adulthood. I explore Canadian standards for sexual health curriculum in schools and how you can bring those conversations into your home. This workshop will also have you reflect on your won experiences with sexual education and determine where you may want to continue your education as a caregiver, and I will connect you to a variety of age appropriate resources to facilitate conversations around sex, sexuality, gender, and consent.

Consent & Parenting

Update your knowledge on the current best practices around consent, and how to teach healthy boundaries to your children. Topics will include theoretical consent models, practical and reasonable applications of consent, and how you can teach consent and body safety to your children from Pre-K to high school graduation and beyond.